Wednesday, February 26, 2014

Week Recap: Jack Updates and Pics!

Its been a bit since we updated - whew! What a week. This is a long post. 
Early last week we went to Target to grab some items.  We saw that the generic Target brand of formula was $10 cheaper than the Enfamil that we currently use and we go through at least a container a week. So we decided to try it and mix Jack's formula half and half of Enfamil and generic to ease Jack over.  We noticed that Jack got a lot more fussy the next day but hoped that it would go away over a few days. It didn't and we ended up just using Enfamil again - failed experiment.  Jack just has expensive taste and we are happy to oblige. 
In addition to the formula fussiness, Jack had a very hard time with the lower dosage of Zantac.  He cried and cried and cried, which was very hard on Mom and Dad. We think that it was the acid coming back in his stomach. That other Dr. prescribed so much that Jack's tummy didn't have much acid left and then when it started coming back it made him very uncomfortable.  Finally by Thursday, I had enough of hearing Jack be miserable and called the Dr. to see what I could do.  I talked to a nurse and explained the situation.  She said "Your baby has reflux, this is just how it going to be for 6 months."  What a terrible thing to stay to a 1st time mom who is obviously calling because she is worried. Yes, tell someone that they should just expect their child to cry constantly for 6 months, because that is helpful. I thought she was rude, but I was steadfast about explaining the needs of my child and needless to say, we got our medication fixed.   They switched us to Prevacid so hopefully it works.  My sister said that this was the miracle drug for all 3 of her children with reflux.  So far, Jack's been doing okay.  He's stopped crying so much. but he's having a bit of difficulty getting used to the new drug.  He's only been on it 5 days and from what I've read, it can take 2 weeks for a child to get used to it.  Side effects include a lack of sleeping and an upset/gassy tummy and we definitely have both of those issues.  He's also started spitting up a lot more which he didn't do before. I'm going to give this drug the full 2 weeks before calling the Dr. because he doesn't seem to be too uncomfortable.  I hope this drug works and is worth it, it costs $120 a month - eek. 

 On Saturday we needed to run some errands so instead of going separately (as we have been doing) we decided to take Jack covered up in the stroller.  It went well! We haven't Jack out much for several reasons: the bitter cold, his lack of vaccinations (he gets them 3/20!) and it is cold/flu season and we really don't want him to get sick as we are having a hard enough time with his colic/reflux, adding a cold would be terrible. So, we got to run to the post office (to mail our birth announcements), Macy's (Mommy was out moisturizer - ack this dry winter, no wonder- and Lancome had a good free gift), had lunch at Chili's (courtesy of a lovely gift card) and went to Sam's to pick up a few items.  Jack was a champ! He was nice and easy for Mom and Dad and even slept through our lunch at Chili's. The stroller worked really well and Mom got some good practice with it.  Saturday night, Colin and I had plans to go out for our friend's birthday so we lined up a babysitter who is one of my old RA employees who is student teaching, she's fantastic! We were a little nervous leaving him, because our past baby sitters have been family or close friends - but it went well.  She said Jack was very good - no crying!  That night we went out to a Hibachi grill - that was really fun and the food was great! Afterwards we went out for drinks and had a blast! As much as I missed Jack, it was really nice to get out, see friends and have adult conversations.  I've been getting pretty stir crazy at home, so I really enjoyed it. It was also a nice time for Colin and I to reconnect a bit.  When we are at home, about 50% of our conversations are about Jack and work so it was a nice flashback to our old "pre-Jack normalcy" of being silly and fun vs being tired and spit up on.  Although Colin and I had a lot of laughs when we were out running errands earlier that day, and it was nice to be able to be goofy with the baby in tow. As Jack grows up, I think it's important that he sees his parents having fun and that we have fun as a family - I think it sets a good tone for the family (and laughing is awesome).


Monday I found out exciting news!  I got offered a new position! When I return from maternity leave, I will be the Coordinator of Conferences and Special Events here at the U of I. I'm very excited.  When the position became vacant, I waited for it to be posted and it got held up a lot so when it finally did, I was 8 months pregnant and was unsure if I should apply do to me being pregnant - I didn't want to add the stress of interviewing to my already hormonal state, but I got a lot of encouragement to do so (which I am VERY appreciative of). So in December I did a phone interview and later that month, learned that I had a finalist interview (1 of 3 finalist candidates).  Since I was very pregnant, the dept pushed back the interview as far as they could.  So 2 1/2 weeks after having baby Jack, I completed a day long interview in front of my peers.  It was stressful, but I prepared a lot and really felt ready - I really wanted this position.  I'm really excited about this new role!  During the summer, will be working to make sure our summer conferences run smoothly (summer conferences generate a lot of revenue for the dept). This is a great opportunity for me professionally because I will be able to learn a new aspect of Housing (which will make me more marketable in the future) and it is a promotion from my current position. I've been a Residence Director here for 6 1/2 years.  It is also a great opportunity for our family - we will get to move out of the residence hall (I've never lived somewhere where I've needed to pay rent or mortgage, it's always been part of my compensation for my line of work), I won't be on duty for students anymore (although, I'll be on call for my new position - but won't be called nearly as often and it will only be during conference season (end of May - early August), and I will no longer have nighttime commitments (my 1st 8-5 job).  This truly is a blessing. Colin and I are planning on renting a house for a year, and then perhaps buying a house soon after.  We will probably be staying in Champaign for awhile - which is nice, while I'd like to move more north, Champaign really is a nice town, we have a good group of friends here, we both like our jobs, we have daycare set up for Jack and it'd be nice to be able to have our 2nd child here (God willing) since my insurance plan is really good.  I negotiated to stay in Weston until May 14th so we have some time to find a place, buy furniture, etc.  It's really nice of Housing to allow me to stay for an additional 2-3 months.  We are super excited!  Between Jack being born, Colin getting a promotion and my new position, 2014 is really the year for us!! 
1st smile!

Daddy/Son bonding time





1 month pics!






A hint of a smile

His modeling pose



Us on our date night



Tuesday, February 18, 2014

1 Month Check Up

Today we took Jack for his 1 month checkup with Dr. Porter.  As usual I brought my prepared list of questions for the doctor. Jack has been quite fussy the past few days but any number of things could contribute to his fussiness (colic, reflux, and/or our recent change of his formula). Last night Mommy only got around 3 hours of sleep - give or take an hour. He was fussing last night and nothing could console him, not even being held (which always works) so it was a long night - he wasn't crying, just kind of whimpering on the verge of crying. I told the Dr. about it and she said that it was probably the formula change but then also asked about his reflux medication. Turns out the Dr. we saw a few weeks ago, prescribed enough daily medication for a 1 yr old. He was having us give Jack 2mL twice a day whereas she would prefer .3mL twice a day - quite a difference! So we are weening him back this week. She said that the medication could have been affecting the balance of acid in is tummy - poor guy! Let's hope he (and I) gets more sleep tonight!

Other than that, we had a great appointment! She said Jack is doing great! Per his measurements, Jack is measuring bigger (not a surprise seeing as he is in 3 month clothes). He also got his 2nd Hep B shot. 
Weight: 11lb 3oz - 77th percentile
Length: 23 1/4 in - 99th percentile (he's longer than 99% of other babies)
Head Circumference: 15 1/4in -  91st percentile
And his length and weight are proportional to his size.

His next appointment will be in a month and he'll get most of his vaccinations- I'm excited because then I'll  be able to bring him out and about more, Right now I don't want to bring him out in public much or around crowds because I don't want him to get sick. Could you imagine? A sick baby AND colic AND reflux?? Nightmare. So for now, we are going to stay in for a bit. 
Storytime with Jack - he likes looking at the pictures and it's good for his development.

Monday, February 17, 2014

Our Little Monster

Aunt Monica bought Jack a cute little monster outfit and he looks awesome in it.
 

 
Even better is how he looks in it when he's fussing, a true little monster.
 
 

Running for Baby

One of the most important things Dana and I want to provide little Jack Jack is a sense of a healthy lifestyle. It's a real issue that he may or may not have to face which very much helps aid me in my motivation to keep running. When WCIA (the local CBS station for the out of towner's) caught wind of my story, they contacted me to be part of their Face of the Race series which precedes this years Illinois Marathon, my next Half Marathon in April.



Face of the Race - Run for Baby - IllinoisHomePage.net

Friday, February 14, 2014

Valentine's Day

Happy Valentine's Day!  We got Jack this shirt a few weeks ago but it seemed appropriate to have him wear it today.  
Jack's been doing well.  He's been more aware lately and actively looks at me when I enter a room or when he's crying (which kinda breaks my heart).  Our baby boy is also doing better with his baths and getting changed - before he would scream when we did both (which made it really hard to get him cleaned up and change his diaper when he was kicking and screaming on the top of his lungs).  He's starting to get more settled in his "4th trimester,"  which makes mommy and daddy much happier. 

Eat your hearts out! :-)

Thursday, February 13, 2014

Little Tigers Fan 2-13-14

Catchers and Pitchers reported today, so of course Jack needed to represent his favorite team!  So here's a collection of the Tigers' littlest fan...




Growing Boy!! 2-12-14

We bought Jack a bunch of sleepers (jammies) a couple weeks ago because all of his newborn sleepers were too small. I started noticing that his new sleepers were pulling behind Jack's knees.  He went through a growth spurt!  So we changed him from his 0-3 month sleepers to his 3 month sleepers and they fit him great!  So he's only just turning a month and is in 3 month clothes.  It's important to note that he's really just big length wise, his 0-3 month hoodies and onesies fit him well and are a little big. So he is all length, a skinny bean pole. We love that skinny bean pole - so sweet.
3 month clothes!

He loves putting his hands to his face. 

4 Year 1st Date Anniversary! 2-10-14

Monday was the 4th anniversary of when Colin and I had our first date. Colin surprised me by asking our friends Ari and CJ to watch Jack so that we could go out to dinner (we went to Ko Fusion for sushi- yum!). It was so sweet of him. He also got me my favorite flowers, Stargazer Lillies and a sweet card.  I'm very lucky to have him in my life, he is so thoughtful!  
We asked Ari to take some pictures of us:


Family Photo!

Our 1st photo together of just us since Jack's been born.
And of course Jack!




Tuesday, February 11, 2014

Update!

It's been four weeks since Jack has been in our lives! 
Obviously we'd like to post more often and keep this blog more updated, so that is our goal for the future! Ideally we'd like to have daily updates or at least a few a week.  Over the past month, we've been pretty busy adjusting to life with Baby Jack! 

Jack has been doing really well! We have learned that we have a very strong baby! During first week he would kick his bassinet so hard that the whole pack 'n play would shake. Within the first two weeks during tummy time he was almost rolling over already! He had both legs in the air and one arm - it was like he was trying to do baby push up.  Colin and I lovingly refer to him as Baby Hulk, because he goes from calm to screaming in three seconds flat and turns bright red (and kicks and slaps). "You wouldn't like me when I'm angry."  LOL luckily he have figured him out so when this happens he stops as quickly as he began. 

Over the past month, we've figured out feeding, burping, baby gas and constipation, acid reflux, and how to protect ourselves from Jack's pee when changing him (he loves surprising Mom and Dad).  Jack now knows how to grab items, likes being read to and makes eye contact. Jack is a thin, long baby. All of his newborn pants are like capri's length wise but are the right width. So we bought him a bunch of 0-3 month sleepers (footie jammies) and he's almost grown out of those too! When we were at the Dr. last week, Jack weighed 10lb 4oz (with clothes on). We have his 1 month checkup soon, so I'm interested to hear what his stats are because he definitely had a growth spurt lately.

Here are some pics of Jack:
Jack, moments after birth

Naptime
Dressed Up 

Relaxed, waiting for his bottle
Since he doesn't know how to play with his toys yet, he studies them.
1st family photo (taken in the hospital)


Jack hanging in his crib
2 weeks!
Jack's Nursery

The entryway to his nursery
After his 1st bath
Mommy and Jack